Assalamualaikum and good evening. Today I want to talk about "second chance". Well, for certain people, they maybe don't believe in 2nd chance. But some of them believe. And I'm someone who is believe in 2nd chance. I believe because everybody make mistakes. And do we need to punish them because of one mistake?
Maybe some of you said, "but,what if they did the same mistake again? I don't want to be hurt." For me, pain or hurt is part of nature. We need to feel it in order to be strong. But, don't be silly by trusting the one who hurt you over and over again. There is a quote saying,"1st time is really a mistake. Second? It's not a mistake. It's a choice."
And when it's come to love, you need to be careful. Second chance can be given. IF. Remember.. If they have learnt from mistake. Don't make a permanent decision for a temporary emotion. Sometimes, we need to leave them for awhile, even it's hurt for us to do. Why? So that, they will learn. Learnt to change.
I've break up with my boyfriend for 6 month before. Trust me. It's painful for me to do because I've been with him for 3 years. But I know, it's the best for me. Now, we are together. And to be honest, we are not like before. We love each other more now. Understand each other situations better. And whenever we have problem, we will talk about it rather than just keeping it.
So, do you understand what I'm trying to say right? Second chance doesn't come easily. You need to make them gain for it because second chance simply mean New. New trust. New relationship. It's like, starting all over again. And sometimes, second chance brings the best outcome.
Okay. That's all from me today. See u again in the next post. Tata~
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